As a parent, our role is to nurture, guide, and support our children, no matter the decisions they make or who they are. But when your child comes out as LGBTQ+, it can stir up complex emotions within us.

When your child comes out to you, it’s a moment of vulnerability and courage. They are showing you their true self, and your response matters deeply. Words like, “I love you just as you are,” or “I’m proud of you for being true to yourself,” can go a long way in building trust and confidence.

You can learn a lot by asking your teen about their life, and then listening without jumping immediately to advice giving.

When you withhold judgment and resist the temptation to give advice, you gain valuable information about your teen’s friends, academics, and mental health. You also give them an opportunity to feel closer to you.